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The Power of Positive Language for Creating Impact

November 03, 20254 min read

How Certainty, Vision and Words Shape the Results You Create

There was a time when I thought being clear about what I did was enough. I had the structure, the qualifications, the offers.

But when I spoke about my work, it often felt flat.

People understood what I did, but they didn’t feel it.
They didn’t see themselves in the result.

That’s when I realised it wasn’t my work that needed more energy, it was my language.

The words you use don’t just describe what you do. They carry the energy of what you believe is possible.

They shape how others feel about your message and how much they trust you to lead them there.

The Power of Language

After teaching Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) for over eight years, I’ve seen again and again how powerful language truly is.

The words we use program our thinking, direct our emotions and influence the way we experience the world.

When you say I’ll try, you’re already leaving room for doubt. When you say I will, you create certainty.

And certainty builds trust, both in yourself and in the people listening.

Comparatives like better, calmer or stronger might sound positive, but they leave your mind searching for a reference point. Better than what? Calmer than when?

Instead, use language that is complete.

Calm.
Focused.
Clear.

That’s how you ground your energy in the present moment, and people can feel it.

The same applies when you talk about your business.

Saying I try to help people grow their business.

Is not the same as saying I help business owners create financial freedom so they can spend more time with their family, take time off when they want and know their business continues to grow even when they’re not working.

One describes what you do.

The other paints a vision.

Why Thinking in Terms of Impact Changes Everything

When you start thinking about the impact you want to make, everything shifts.

Your clarity, your confidence and your energy all start working together.

It’s not about selling what you do. It’s about showing what it creates.

For me, having a vision led business isn’t optional, it’s essential.

I’m deeply passionate about small and medium-sized businesses because they are the heartbeat of our communities.

Here in South Australia, there are around 160,000 small businesses, representing 98% of all businesses in the state. They employ around 40% of the workforce and account for more than a quarter of all wages and salaries paid across South Australia.

That’s huge.

These are people who are out there every day making a difference, supporting families, creating jobs and driving innovation.

And yet they are also the ones who feel the effects of stress, burnout and financial pressure the most. I’ve seen firsthand how that pressure ripples through families and communities.

That’s why I do what I do.

I help business owners get clear on what they truly want, the lifestyle they want to live and the impact they want to make.

Because when your business supports your life, you have more capacity to create change for the people around you.

Speak With Certainty and Paint a Vision

Influence isn’t about persuasion, it’s about clarity.

People are drawn to those who know where they’re going. They want to feel that you can take them somewhere.

That’s why speaking with certainty and painting a vision for the future is so powerful.

When you describe the experience, the emotion and the outcome, people start to imagine themselves in it.

That’s when communication becomes connection.

Whether you’re talking to a client, applying for a grant or inviting a friend to an event, clarity and vision always have more impact than perfection or over-explaining.

The Real Power of Language

People don’t buy your title or your process. They buy your energy, your vision and your belief in what’s possible for them.

When your language reflects your impact, your message becomes magnetic.

You build trust, clarity and momentum, not through effort, but through presence and certainty.

✨ Want to go deeper on this? Listen to the full conversation on The Coaching CircleEp 112: The Power of Positive Language for Creating Impact.


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Hi I’m Toni, a coaching and communication expert who loves blending business and numbers with people and purpose. I help you turn your vision into a business and lifestyle you love.

Toni Everard

Hi I’m Toni, a coaching and communication expert who loves blending business and numbers with people and purpose. I help you turn your vision into a business and lifestyle you love.

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